Emotional Abuse, Faith, Grace, Pain and suffering, Uncategorized

It’s Not My Fault!

I am so tired of the myth that it takes two to cause an affair. It simply isn’t true.

Emotional Abuse, Faith, Grace, Hope, Pain and suffering, remarriage, Surviving Adultery and Divorce, Uncategorized

Three Truths About Divorce

The Word of God as a whole is about love and grace, about second chances. God is a God of forgiveness, of setting prisoners free. He is a God who redeems all things and brings beauty out of our broken lives.

Emotional Abuse, Forgiveness, Hope, Pain and suffering, Uncategorized

It Takes Two and Other Myths About Adultery and Divorce

It takes two… I’m sure you’ve heard the phrase as it applies to many different things in this life. I spent the majority of my life believing that divorce took two, that if a divorce occurred it was because both people were responsible for the failure. I now know just how wrong that belief is.… Continue reading It Takes Two and Other Myths About Adultery and Divorce

Emotional Abuse, Hope, marriage, parenting, Uncategorized

It’s Not About You (Revisited)

I’ll never forget the conversation I had with my then husband about the woman he was having an affair with. “It’s just exhilarating that someone like that would be interested in me,” he said. Adultery hits at the core of your being. Every ounce of self-confidence and self-respect you carry is destroyed. You look in… Continue reading It’s Not About You (Revisited)