The Sanctity of Marriage

Have you heard the term “sanctity of marriage?” I typically hear this phrase thrown around to say that marriage should be protected at all costs, that divorce is never an option, that a Christian couple should never throw in the towel under any circumstances. I’m not sure, however, that is the proper use of the […]

Is Your Marriage Difficult or Destructive?

Several months ago, I wrote about the biblical story of Abigail and Nabal. You can read it here. This story has always been an intriguing one to me. I’m not sure why it has always captivated me. Maybe it is because Nabal was so cruel. Maybe it was because Abigail was such an amazing example. […]

Is Your Marriage Abusive?

Abigail and Nabal represent the classic narcissistic, abusive husband and a godly, empathic wife. It’s a story that plays out over and over in society today, in churches around the world.

Common Themes in Divorce

Most Christians divorce only after major problems caused by one spouse’s abusive, addictive, adulterous behavior. I hear the stories every day, and these threads seem to run through most every story.

Why I Am Thankful for my Husband’s Affair

I used to believe my husband’s affair was the worst thing that ever happened to me. Today, I am eternally grateful for it.

Toxic Men Vs Toxic Women

Most people believe men are capable of far greater abuse in relationships. I’m not so sure…

Unexpected Twists and Turns

Roy and I have experienced a few laughs this week showing the crazy twists and turns life can throw at us.

The Life I Never Wanted

I am living a life I never wanted, and I am so glad God gives us what we need and not what we want.

Why I Am Pro-Divorce

Divorce will always break my heart…just as it breaks my Father’s heart.

To the one…

My child, I know you are hurting and overwhelmed. But I want you to know…